Someday they’ll know
hi. im 20 and im bisexual and some of my friends know it. i came out at a coming out party we were having at school for our club. everyone was really supportive. some of my friends even went up on stage with me so i didn’t feel so akward. but i dont know how my close friends would feel about it or my parents either. one of my close friends knows and she said it was about time. my parents are so by the bible i dont know how to tell them. im too scared to. and i really dont know how to tell my brothers. my friends at school are the only ones that know. they are the only ones that do not care. im even starting to go to church because they accept me. they have no problems with LGBT’s. but telling my step dad and even my real father is the scarriest thing i will have to do. i ask my step dad all the time about how he feels about gays and he says he knows some but i better not be gay. it kills me that he thinks that way. my mom i think would be more supportive but she is catholic and crazy sometimes. my best friend of 15 years doesnt even know. i told my ex boyfriend that im bisexual and he didnt talk to me for days. he finally came around and we are best friends. i know that someday everyone will know im bisexual. i just dont know when they will. someday they will.
Hello, I’m 21 and I am a lesbian. I applaud you for coming out to your friends as bisexual. That’s pretty neat the way you came out. I have never heard of it that way. Haha, it’s natural for some friends to say it’s about time. It’s like they know you better than anyone else, and just wait for you to tell them. My suggestion for you is to tell your parents’ when you feel most comfortable. You never know how they are going react unless you take the initial action to telling them. There is nothing wrong with only having your friends now. I unfortunately came out because I couldn’t keep it from anyone anymore. My parents’ said “We knew all along, we were just waiting for you to tell us.” “We are accepting of this because you are our daughter and no matter whom you chose to love is fine with us.” It’s not easy to come out in the LGBTQ community. But I wish you the best of luck on your journey.