It just feels good
It just feels good. What I mean by that is that it feels good to not “be in the closet”. I do not want to get into how I knew aspect. So….. after I came to the decision of coming public with it, I simply just started including it in conversation. I would just say oh that guys cute, or “very nice, how much?” everytime a twink walked by, no I am just playing. But those are examples on how I included my preference in casual conversation. After telling the first person, I found that it just gets easier. Warning: some people are not willing to accept homosexuals, so just be mindfull of your environment. It takes time, remember safety in numbers and be safe.